Blog 10 - my life in ruins
Well, the sun has set in London...actually it did at about 4pm. I'm nursing a sore wrist from a nasty ice skating incident, and it provides me with an opportunity to reflect on our time in two of the oldest civilisations in the world, Italy and Greece.
Other than the San Marcello adventure, which I still smile about, I haven't written anything since arriving in Montepulciano. We were there for three and a half weeks all up. It was the best of times and the worst of times, it was the time of high(ish) season, and then low season.
(Aspects of Montepulciano - main square, chilly morning view out our window, church of St Biagio, family!)
Or to put it more simply, it was busy for about a week with shops open and tourists flocking, and then it simply turned into a ghost town. People vacated the streets, it was a lottery whether a shop would be open. There seemed no logic about any of it. Most closed during the day for anything between 1-4 hours, usually when you needed something. It was actually slightly eerie. All that was missing were the tumbleweeds.
(San Gimingnano)
(Montalcino)
Luckily we still had a car, and managed to disappear on day trips. Orvieto was a charming city set up on a cliff with an amazing history, and a labyrinth of caves - many of them located on private property and turned into wine cellars! San Gimignano with its impressive towers, and Montalcino had a medieval festival, with drummers drumming and pipers piping. It was all pretty impressive, but fairly touristy. We also travelled to Florence and spent a few days dragging the kids around the galleries to see Michaelangelo's David (which Jessie felt she could have done - big call as he's huge), and the 60 odd rooms of the Uffizi (think that's a lot? Haven't even talked about the Vatican yet!)
(Florence's Duomo)
(Detail from the fresco - mmm, tasty)
Florence is beautiful and deserving of its praise. The cathedral and duomo is spectacular, with its broad view from the top, and genuinely unsettling fresco on the dome. One thing which we saw a lot of in...well, all of Europe actually, was people trying to flog those splat balls that reform into a ball when you throw them on the ground, and those rubber band catapult glowy-whirly things. They were everywhere and because we had children we were constantly badgered about buying them. It's weird gazing at the Ponte Vecchio bridge, dodging the plastic helicopters and serenaded by the thwack of a hundred splat balls... Yes I know, first world problem, but I swear there were a few vendors that were going to have their products forcibly inserted into their person.
Detour to Pisa, and for the second time for me the Leaning Tower springs up from round a corner and again I am simply in awe of it. The whole Field of Miracles (where the tower is) is stunning. We, and every other person there, took the photo pretending to hold the tower up. It really leans! A lot! Jess and I climbed it (Billie too small, had to be 9 and above, and it was the first time someone called us on it). It's hollow on the inside, interestingly.
(See, every idiot tries to hold the tower up...)
(Oh, whoops!)
Back in Montepulciano, Renae did a two week Italian speaking course which she enjoyed and where we met some pretty awesome people, including Susan from Florida, Lachlan from Hawaii/Seattle and wherever he is travelling next(!), and Maya from London amongst others. Some great nights spend drinking quite a lot, doing a cooking course in one of the local restaurants (probably the highlight of Montepulciano, beautiful meals created kids involved and loved it. Possibly sailed close to the edge with hygiene rules in restaurants...). Ah what else? We ran quite a bit, getting weird looks from the three locals that were on the streets at the time. Running in Tuscany was fairly sublime actually, especially as the weather was often good - looking over the ploughed fields, passing farmers picking olives. Problem was that the first leg of the running was all downhill, and the climb back to the top was a struggle.
(Cooking class - thumbs up from Billie
Jessie turned ten. It was a good birthday...sort of. While Renae went to Italian class, I took her horseriding, and she had an hour lesson and a small trail ride, which she loved. Billie however, had gastro, and stayed in the car sleeping and handing me bags of sick (yeah, sorry bout that visual). Renae made Jessie a tiramisu, her favourite. It felt strange just being the four of us, but she appreciated messages/Viber and skypes from home. And it's amazing the healing powers of equine therapy! (Billie got her horse ride a week later!)
We cut short our time in Montepulciano, partly because we wanted to start the San Marcello adventure (see blog 9), but also, frankly, we felt we'd seen all there was to see. We loved the guys we met from the Italian class, but didn't feel at all part of the community, which I know Renae wanted, and was in a way the driver for us going (ah yes, the year in the villa in Tuscany). It is hard when you say buongiorno, and if they reply with anything other than how are you or where is the laundromat, then you're pretty much rooted.
But it was spectacularly beautiful.
Moving forward, like you do, after the euphoria of San Marcello wore off, I drove 6 hours down the guts of Italy to honour a promise to my youngest. As we were brainstorming "things we want to see and do in Europe" at home before we left (as a means of fast tracking through the grief cycle so it wasn't all sadness and anger when we left), Billie really just had one wish.
To see Pompeii...
Pompeii the town is not special or in any way pretty. Its about 100 metres off the main highway. The drivers around Pompeii were like all Italian drivers - psychotic and with a cavalier attitude towards road rules. Our hotel was like an oasis though and I rate it highly...in fact on Trip Advisor I rated it highly.
(Pompeii, and that's Vesuvius in the background)
So in the morning we were accosted by the typical tour companies and got sucked in to an audioguide for Pompeii (worth it) and a tour of Vesuvius (so not worth it). But Pompeii, was as surreal as expected. The old houses, shops and baths, the cobblestoned streets, the clumps of tour groups led by over exuberant guides thrusting an umbrella or flower in the air and walking with an odd sense of purpose from place to place. It was eerily quiet too. There was something morbid about how much my kids wanted to see the petrified bodies too!
Jess was uneasy the whole time in Pompeii thinking that Vesuvius (which loomed menacingly(?) in the distance) was going to pick that day to erupt. So imagine how thrilled she was when we went up there and gaped into the big steaming chasm of its mouth? Cool to say we'd seen it. Great view of Milan in all it's dirty expansive glory. But it was freezing and, believe it or not, we had to get in the car and drive to Rome!
(Mt Vesuvius. You can just see the fear in Jessie's eyes)
And we were doing so well, Renae as navigator and me as driver. We worked out all the on and off ramps, the hysterical signs that the Italians have that may show a place name with arrows in two directions, or one sign, one arrow and sixteen place names.
We made the airport needing to drop the car off and refuel it. We did not pass a service station! We then left the airport looking for one, and it was only when I DROVE UP A ONE WAY STREET THE WRONG WAY that we found one. (Admittedly, I didn't know it was one way, but at least I felt I'd arrived as an Italian driver!)
By this time it was way to late, we'd all had too much day, and a nice taxi drove us to our hotel (great location and great hotel actually) and we collapsed.
(Pantheon)
(Trevi fountain)
(Erm, the Flavian Amphitheatre)
BUT NOT FOR LONG. When you're in the Eternal City, you gotta make each day count! So, Trevi fountain - check, Pantheon - check, Colusseum (sorry Billie, Flavian amphitheatre, as she will correct you about it's correct name) - check, shop that has over 150 flavours of Gelati - check! (Mmm, try basil flavour, it's yummy!)
Best line of Rome? Billie is used to being called 5/6/7/8, depending on whether there's a discount for young kids, or a minimum age for entry (eg a ride). Colosseum is free for kids only from EU countries, so as we lined up, Billie sidled over and whispered "Dad, how old do I have to be today?" And I replied "You can be 7, but you have to be British!"
St. Peter's was closed as there was a special mass on, so we zipped around the corner and wound our way through the Vatican Museum. It was not overly crowded, and the kids got a special treasure hunt audio guide that made them hunt down specific art works, with a commentary that was more Horrible Histories than Stuffy Professor, and this distracted than from the fact that they probably walked the equivalent of a half marathon on the day!
(Vatican, St Peter's...maybe God...)
Sistine Chapel roof is amazing, the whole Chapel is actually superb. The modern art was incredible, the Egyptian artefacts were impressive, the art of Raphael was my highlight (studied the School of Athens at school, so it was like meeting a celebrity...okay that's a bit sad I know). Was a great day.
The Roman Forum makes you pause, even the kids were impressed with the sense of history all around.
I love Rome, it was always my favourite city outside Australia, but I don't know if it was a combination of being ripped off, general Italian beaurocracy (try sending a parcel home, it makes you want to cry), f$*ng splat balls or just 4 months of travelling, but I was happy to leave. Sadly, I left my diary there that I'd been using to record my "observations" to help with the blog. (Hotel found it, it's been on-forwarded)
We had about 6 days in Athens - possibly either less or more than we should have had. Longer and we would have done an island like Santorini for a week, shorter and we would have done the highlights package and moved on.
As it was, we did a "hop on hop off" bus tour, which gave you a nice perspective of the place. We went to the Parthenon/Acropolis, which was impressive and also gave you a spectacular view of the sprawl that is Athens. But it was all also HEAVILY under construction, and it was a bit like a Parthenon Transformer, ready to evolve into some monster truck.
(Parthenon - scaffolding strategically hidden)
We shopped, got our Christmas presents posted off! Our accommodation was a cheap four bedroom place in a slightly salubrious part of Athens. The owners mother snuck in at 7.30 and made us breakfast - just bread, jam and coffee, but it was really appreciated.
The people of Greece clearly were feeling the hardship, but remained one of the nicest people we've met to date. Friendly, interested, great with the girls. But we'd had four months in countries that did not have English as their primary language, no TV - no good TV (but even English TV is debatable in that respect). We were exhausted physically from being constantly on the move and cerebrally from the language barriers we continually butted up against.
Sorry Greece it's not you, it's me. It is a country I want to come back to and do differently. Properly, and do it justice.
(From Mt Lykabettus, afternoon)
(Dusk...)
(Night)
This is where I'll leave you, mid-air heading towards Heathrow (yes I know I'm here now, it's for dramatic effect. Just go with it). There's no in flight movie, so I have drunk two mini bottles of Shiraz. Renae deep in conversation with the lady beside her and I can't tell if they are loving the company or just wishing the other would shut up!
The girls are tired. They are ready for a country where people speak English.
So til next blog, arriverderci, au revoir, auf wiedersehen, hasta la vista...baby!
From the Carolinvandenbergs