Blog 8 - ...and breathe...
Ciao from Italy everyone!! Three months in and time for, as the Amazing Race would say, a mandatory rest period. We are in Montepulciano, in the Tuscan countryside, living the dream and reinforcing the stereotype. We arrived a few days ago to piercing blue sky and sunshine and an amazing view from our apartment stretching for miles over the ploughed fields...and this morning we couldn't see further than 5 metres as the fog had rolled in. It rolled on about 4pm...fog likes to hang around.
We are here for a month in an apartment that is cosy and rustic (read that however you like), but the town itself is sublime.
(Sunset Montepulciano)
So anyway, speaking of Bosnia Herzegovina as we weren't...
Mostar was quite a place and we feel lucky to have experienced it the way we did. We saw the beauty of the bridge as discussed in the last blog, but we shared an experience with the hostel owner we won't ever forget. We spent a day with another Australian couple and Miran (owner of Hostel Miran...I know, surprising) who drove us around Mostar and parts of Herzegovina. We visited Počitelj, with its old ruins, and waterfalls in the Neretva Valley equally as nice as Plitviče Lakes, only with no tourists. We went to the sheer bizarro-world that is Medugorije. Thirty odd years ago, five kids got lost in the hills near the city, and apparently Mary came to them and said "Hi, I live here. Just head down the hill and you'll be right, tell them I said hi". (I'm giving you the wikipedia-esque version). Well they got back to town and told the people what had happened, and now it is an absolute Mecca (okay that's a terribly inappropriate choice of metaphor) for Christians all over Europe to come, pray, buy a plastic rosary or key chain or t-shirt (my favourite had Jesus, arms out on the cross with a caption "I love you this much", I kid you not!).


(Mostar -the Bridge)
(...and the bullet holes)
We then dodged and left the scores of buses and went on to Blagaj to a dervish house (as in the whirling dervishes - and Irma that means I tick off everything you said I should see!!!)
(Aw, noice!)
But after that, on a more serious note, we wound our way up the hill behind Mostar to the front lines of the 90's war. We stood in the Bosnian bunkers, we picked up bits of shrapnel and bullet shells, we saw where the Serbian army were placed. Miran told us his story, how as a 15 year old he would climb the hill from Mostar to the front line asking for food from the sympathetic Serbian troops, even trying to negotiate weapons for soldiers in Mostar. He told us of neighbours meeting each other as enemies in the trenches, he described (as best he could) the three way struggle between the Croatian, Serbian and Bosnian forces. Later he showed us home movies of his family sitting in the house we were sitting in, chatting, as rifle fire and mortar shells whirred around them. Footage of his grandfather talking to camera, and who died two weeks after it was filmed from a sniper bullet, was hard to watch.
There are a lot of reasons why we wanted to take this trip as a family and this in a way was one of them. The chance to meet Miran and for him to share his and his family's story with us has made us all the richer because of it. I won't forget it.
(Bosnian bunker and no mans land)
On to Split...again. Surprisingly not unlike the way it was when we were there a few weeks earlier. We washed, we skyped, weather wasn't great. We did have a great day on the island of Brač, where we hired bikes and pedalled around parts of the island. One of the few islands that we could actually get to. Much of Croatia, indeed much of Europe, tends to put the shutters down after the 1st of October. Ferries either stop or go very rarely, and we've had several instances of finding literally nowhere to eat! But I think even the post office serves beer, so that was okay!
(Supetar, port of Brač)
(Sunset over Brač)
Then we jumped on an overnight ferry that smoothly lulled us across the Adriatic from Split to Ancona and here we are in Italy!
Spent about three hours in Ancona, enough time I thought to scream up to the cool cathedral on the hill. Sadly the public transport gods again conspired against us. Shouldn't ve said what I said about Medugorije...
Then on to my new pick for BEST CITY IN THE WORLD!!! Not the cheapest or most liveable, not easiest to get around, certainly not the least smelly, but VENICE is simply amazing. I loved it from the minute I fell off the train lugging my 40kg backpack. Kids were whining...but it didn't matter because we were in Venice!
(Aspects of Venice)
Our apartment was in a great spot, only 500 meters from St Marks square...or 200 meters if you go the right way first time. Everywhere you looked was a photo opportunity and every time of the day provided a different nuance of light, shade and colour, be it an alleyway or the Grand Canal. St Marks square and the Riva outside it were fascinating for its insane amount of tourists (yes yes, I'm a tourist too...) and vendors selling crap, but there were paths you could walk where you wouldn't see another soul for 10 minutes.
Appropriately, we ate pizza and gelati. Billie ate Quattro Formaggi (4 cheeses) pizza till her nose bled...no, really. We drank cappuccinos and hot chocolate that was like syrup. We remortgaged the house and went on a gondola ride. It was early morning, city was waking up, sun was out taking some of the chill off the day. I'd tell you it wasn't worth it, but I'd be lying.
We spent two days at the Venice Biennale. Putting it simply, it's an art exhibition where countries exhibit work (or works) from an artist (or artists) in some of the beautiful parks and buildings around Venice. The works ranged from the beautiful and clever (New Zealand and Bahamas, well done you - got the CVDB votes) to the downright freaking odd (hello...Romania). It was a chance for the girls to reassess what they thought art was...and then decide that much of what there was wasn't actually art!!! Here's a snapshot, with no explanations...wouldn't want to make it easy for you!
(Latvia -the tree swings up and down...that ought to help...)
(New Zealand - put Oz to shame!)
(Russia - he's shelling peanuts and eating them...of course he is!)
(Romania - more performance art)
(Part of the Netherlands exhibit)
We've been to lots of cities and towns, but Venice was honestly the first I felt sad about leaving. But leave we did, and on we went by train to Milan. Ironically one of the goals was to see daVinci's Last Supper, and if we were planning to visit in early 2014, that probably would have worked out fine, what with the six week waiting list for tickets and all...
So we went to the Duomo instead and walked on the top of the roof. That was cool. The building is very ornate and Renae questioned what the son of a carpenter would think of it. We shopped, as you apparently do in Milan. There were a million shoe shops. Renae was in heaven, I was in one of the seven levels of hell so dragged the girls with me and went off to buy a guitar!!! Milan was underwhelming. (Sorry Milan, I know you spoke highly of the Carolin Vandenbergs, let's just be friends!)
And now we have a car again. It's a Peugeot...its a manual...it has no GPS...
We spent three days in the region of Emilia-Romagno, home of bolognese sauce, Parmesan cheese, Parma ham...all those disgusting things! After deciding that eating at the third-best restaurant in the world (in Modena) was never going to work with kids (expensive, and they were likely to turn their noses up at candied calf tongue with aniseed foam and ask for chicken nuggets), we booked a farm stay just out of a town called Monghidoro.
It had horse riding and archery, so I reckon we have brownie points with the kids for a while. The owners also ran a working farm 200m up the road, and we had a chance to watch them milk and learn about their lives too. The patriarch of the family invited us in and showed us photos of his family. Luckily one of the family members could interpret, but there was lots of smiling and gesturing anyway! We have been fortunate to meet so many kind and generous people so far.
And then we drove to where we are now, and where we'll be for nearly a month. Kids have done homework every day, and again, we have clean clothes. Car is parked, belongings are put into drawers (it's amazing how good that feels!). Doing overnighter to Florence next week (to go to the Uffizi and see that big statue guy with the big doodle...), and day trips to San Gimingnano, Siena, Pisa, and San Marcello Pistoese where my grandfather was shot down in WW2. On the quest to find a propellor!!
Jessie's done all the Harry Potters now and looking for a new challenge (I'm thinking Chronicles of Narnia). Billies got a bit of a natural flair for language, and we have found a new strategy to get her eating anything other than chocolate and cheese...blindfolding!
Renae plans to do an Italian language course (vital, as she collared a local holding her phrase book wanting to ask where the post office was. Confused looks. Took Jessie to casually mention to her that she was asking in Polish...).
And I have a guitar now, and a bad haircut. Interesting experience trying to convey what you want done when you speak very little Italian and they speak no English. But hey, we all know the difference between a bad haircut and a good one...
Lots of love to all. RIP Peggo the Bee.
Arrivederci from the EuropeanCaravans